Death Café Oaxaca is a free monthly gathering for open, honest, and surprisingly warm conversations about death and dying. No agenda, no grief counseling, no set outcomes - just tea, sweet treats, and the kind of talk that reminds us we are human. All are welcome - curious, grieving, afraid, at peace, or anywhere in between.

Death Café Oaxaca — In Person Held every third Thursday of the month. Facilitated in English and Spanish. No registration needed - just show up on time.

Death Café Online Held every fourth Thursday of the month. Registration required -  click below to reserve your space and receive your Zoom link.

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Each Death Café Oaxaca is structured to keep conversation genuine and unhurried. We gather in two to three small tables, each held by a facilitator - so every voice has room to be heard.

Death Café Oaxaca and Online are about being in community. There is no expert in the room — your voice carries the same weight as the person sitting across from you.

Come to share what you know, to listen to what you don't, and to be changed a little by both. This is a space built on the belief that when we talk about death together, we all leave more alive.

Each Death Café Oaxaca and Online are held by dedicated facilitators whose role is to create a space where everyone feels genuinely welcome.

They are here to hold the container - ensuring the conversation flows with care, that no one goes unheard, and that all who feel called to share have the time and space to do so.

Death Café is not a counseling service or a grief group — it is simply a space for open conversation.

But sometimes a conversation opens a door, and you may find yourself wanting more. Below are resources for grief support, end-of-life planning, and mental health care — offered here in the spirit of community, not as recommendations or referrals. 

Additional resources here